We were talking about being single and not being single and just general girly conversations about men.
I think I may have taken it to a slight extreme though!
Who wants the latest update in the continuing soap opera that is �Fair�s Love Life�??!!
T:
Out of the picture. Has gone to Ireland, have hardly heard from him and when I did it was so he could tell me about the saucy texts and emails he got for Valentines Day (they weren�t from me I hasten to add!) so I told him that I got in at 9.30 the following day so I had a pretty good night too!! OK, so maybe that was a bit crap of me but he gives this vibe that he thinks I am pining for him and waiting for him to come back�well no! He had the chance to talk about what was/wasn�t going on with us before he went to Ireland and he ignored it. I can�t be dealing with game-playing.
I love him to bits in a friend kinda way, but romantically, he�s off the scene.
Muppet
I didn�t see him for 2 weeks, he was ill, I was ill, he was away etc etc. I saw him on Friday night when we went to the pub, I stayed the night (no naughties though) and then I saw him on Saturday night when we ended up in the pub. He seemed ok early on in the night but by the time I left at the end and said bye to him he was kinda strange. I asked when he was off, he said he didn�t know and he would let me know (he seemed to forget that I know when the rotas are done for the week ahead). In the brief text conversations we had on Sunday night and Monday he seemed pretty distant and seemed to have no interest in us meeting up and doing anything so I left my last message with him as �Let me know when your off work and if you want to do something x�.
That was Monday, he texted last night (Wednesday) saying �Hey wanna meet up 2morrow�. Never mind how have you been, what was it like being back at work yada yada. I told him I couldn�t do tonight and that I was surprised to hear from him. The conversation then went like this:
Muppet: Why is that?
Me: I�ve just been getting the feeling you weren�t too bothered about seeing me again
Muppet: Hang on a minute, you had friends staying
Me: True, but whenever I�ve suggested meeting up you haven�t exactly been filled with enthusiasm
Muppet: Look I�m really not in the mood for this, if you don�t want to meet up then just say
Me: *looking confused* I�m really sorry if you�re not in the mood, I was just trying to be honest and tell you how I�ve been feeling.
And that was the end of the conversation. I�m not sure what brought the strop on in him. He says all the time that he doesn�t dance (in that he tells it as it is) but the moment I try and tell him how he�s made me feel this week he flies off. I really don�t need to be dealing with these moods just coz I�m trying to be honest about the way he�s made me feel. What the hell kind of relationship is that going to be if he gets the hump about it. Sorry Mr Muppet but its time for your introduction to the Spanish Archer.
So this brings me to my next victim�(yes there�s one there already)
P:
P made me realise that maybe I shouldn�t be with Muppet. When you�ve been seeing someone and another guy asks for your phone number so that you can arrange to go out for a drink and you not only give them your number, but take theirs as well, it�s a pretty good indication you shouldn�t be seeing the guy your with (especially as I was having doubts about him a couple of weeks ago as well!)
Anyway, I met P about 4 weeks ago and we chatted for a while but nothing more, we�ve seen each other in the pub a couple of times since and said hello to each other but he was there on Friday and we chatted for ages and we are going for a drink tonight. I have a date�.eeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeekk!
Damn I�m fickle sometimes. I�m thinking though that I may have taken �Like Everyone� to its limits and its about time I stopped with liking one! Ah well, I will just have to see how it all goes tonight I guess!